When Duggar baby #19 was born, I knew someone would ask if they were done. So I wasn’t surprised to see a People Magazine with the crass question, “How many kids are too many?”

People followed the Duggars to the NICU, asking and answering many questions. A cool thing about the Duggars is that they are debt-free and self sufficient, so a lot of arguments about who is going to pay for all these babies are already answered.

I wonder why they choose to live their lives in the public eye, exposing themselves to so much criticism. Being out there on that lonely limb, they are bound to hear the question, “are you done, yet?” magnified 1,000%.

But Michelle wisely says she’s the only one who can live her life.

They are the ones who must raise their family, and then answer to God for their decisions. I applaud them for not backing down from their beliefs because someone else thinks they should. It is between them and God what happens next.

What do you think?